Nobody Wants An Answer!

23 Jan 2024

My wife and I hosted a going-away party for Ragne (RAWG-knee), an affable Swedish pastor, who spent a year in America to learn how to make his own country come alive for God. He attended a weekly Bible study that met in our home.

After everyone said their farewells, I asked Ragne, “What is the most interesting thing your have learned about Americans?”

Without hesitation he told our group in a thick Scandinavian accent, “Well, when I first got here, everywhere I would go, everyone would always say to me, ‘Ragne, so good to see you. How are you doing?’ It took me about six months to realize—nobody wants an answer!”

It’s a good reminder. To love people is to really want an answer.

Until every church disciples every man…

Pat

(adapted from the 25th anniv. ed. of The Man in the Mirror)

Related Articles

What Your Pastor Would Love To Tell You, But Can’t
What Your Pastor Would Love To Tell You, But Can’t
10 Ideas To Start Men's Discipleship Conversations Volume 241 August 18, 2015
What Is the Most Important Thing You Can Do In Your Relationship With God?
What Is the Most Important Thing You Can Do In Your Relationship With God?
One day Steve sent me an email and asked, “Pat, what is
What Is a True Friend?
What Is a True Friend?
One day I received a phone call from the FBI. The agent